5 Things A Confident Woman Does To Nurture Her Spirit

by Adalia on November 8, 2009

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A confident woman will take time away from her family and friends to nurture her spirit.

She does not hold on to that super woman, no one can function without me mentality. She knows that she will have more of her self to give.

Your spirit is the intangible force that animates your physical being. It is who you are at your core, naked without your everyday masks. Your spirit seeks harmony, peace, love, and balance. It is important to feed your mind and take care of your body but it’s as equally important to nurture your spirit.

A nurtured spirit will leave you  feeling rested, energized, aligned, and in harmony with all that is good.

There are many interpretations of what the spirit is or isn’t and there is also the question as to whether the spirit and the soul are one and the same.

Here are my thoughts and before I share them – I want you to know that my beliefs are not carved in stone. I am open to listening, learning, and letting go of old beliefs,  if I discover one that is more meaningful.

Here is my opinion – your soul and your spirit are two separate energies that fuel your physical experience. Your soul like your fingerprint is unique and your spirit is connected to everyone and the universe.

In spirit we are one.

This is a topic that needs deeper exploration. For now let’s address the 5 things a confident woman does regularly to nurture her spirit.

gratitude

Gratitude
Giving thanks and appreciating all that she has NOW.  She sees and appreciates the blessings in her life. The big and the small, the simple and the complex. She own all of her experiences – those that are considered negative and  those that she could blame on others.  She re- frames them for  more positive and meaningful experiences … that allow her to grow and uplift her spirit.
love

Love
She is not afraid to love and be loved. But most important she loves herself unconditionally – in spite of WHATEVER. Whether it is romantic or platonic love she allows herself be vulnerable to receive and to give love. If she has been hurt and/or disappointed with love, she allows herself to embrace love. She expresses love daily, with a simple smile, a hello, or a thank you. She gives complements and allows herself to be comfortable receiving them.

With such daily expressions of love, her spirit remains calm and at peace.

The spirit is a conduit of love and it thrives on love.

meditating

Meditation

Meditation holds her mind in abeyance. It relaxes her physical body and connects her to spirit. With the removal of all the noise and distraction, valuable communication can be made with her spirit. It’s comparable to spending quality time with some one you love in the physical world. The spirit is her internal mentor, coach, and guiding light. Such communication allows her to tap into her “soul’s purpose.” The decisions she should make, the path she should travel. Meditation allows her to have one on one time with herself – namely her spirit. She emerges from the experience invigorated, focused, and strongly connected to her core beliefs.
nature

Nature
She takes time to enjoy nature. The spirit needs nature – plants, birds, trees, and water. Nature takes away the material concerns and strengthens the relationship between her physical and her spiritual being.  Even if she lives in the city, the confident woman will find a way to connect to her higher self thorough nature.
forgive

Forgiveness
Your spirit suffers when there is a lack of forgiveness. This suffering can affect you physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Holding on to grudges, blame and ill will keeps you shackled to your past and in turn it keeps your spirit from been free. When your spirit is free – your intuition will be intensified and your creativity will be enhanced. A confident woman has compassion, she forgives, lets go of the past and moves on.

In this fast paced world where : I am too busy, I don’t have enough time (even though we have invented zillions of gadgets to free up our time) have become daily mantras. It’s up to YOU to take time to nurture your spirit. It’s easy -  give thanks, embrace love, look up at the sky, smell the roses, smile, say thank you, and be compassionate.

A healthy spirit fills your days with peace, happiness, and fulfillment.

Start today and do one thing that nurtures your spirit.

Other Resources:

Video:  Set Your Spirit Free

Book:   Pocketful of Miracles, Prayers, affirmations to Nurture the Spirit Every Day of The Year

Thought Stimulator: Let your mind start a journey thru a strange new world. Leave all thoughts of the world you knew before. Let your soul take you where you long to be…Close your eyes let your spirit start to soar, and you’ll live as you’ve never lived before. – Eric Fromn

Thanks so much for stopping by. I value your feed back. Are you a confident woman? How do you nurture your spirit? Share with us so that we can learn new ways to connect to our spirit. Retweets and Facebook mentions make me smile.

To your magnificence!

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Pamela Michell November 10, 2009 at 5:34 pm

Too often we don't take time to nurture ourselves, yet when we do, we feel better…and most of us know those wonderful, positive feelings foster more good feelings. Too often, I tell myself I don't have time to… tho can't recall a time when the minutes spent enjoying nature, counting blessings, or in meditation did not enhance my life or my ability to enhance someone else! In the end, few of us will say we wish we spent more time working. Thanks for the reminder to consciously appreciate the goodness and the challenges in our lives.

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Adalia John December 7, 2009 at 12:46 pm

Thanks for your feed back Pamela. We forget to nurture self because we are too busy being busy. However, living a balanced life does not mean we give equal time to all areas. It means giving some time. Even a five minute break each day for nurturing our spirit is more beneficial than waiting until you can take off for a weekend retreat.

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adaliaj December 24, 2009 at 5:30 am

Pamela, you are on point – we get so busy in our microwave is too slow world – that we forget to nurture our spirit. When spirit is not nurtured the physical body and physical experience is affected negatively. some reach for drugs, food, alcohol or other escapes that wounds the spirit even more.

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Linda November 17, 2009 at 6:50 pm

I love this! Thanks for sharing

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Adalia John November 22, 2009 at 12:26 am

Thanks for stopping by Linda. I look forward to more of your commnets.

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adaliaj December 24, 2009 at 5:59 am

Hi Linda, I am so honored that you took time to read my post and leave a comment. I look forward to you visit in the future.

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