After reading an article by James E Rouse, ND of optimum wellness, I had a shift in my thinking regarding resolutions.  He suggested that we should focus on what we want more of,  instead of what we want to “fix.” What a concept!

My friend, Anne,  has been living  in her new town home for approximately ten months and was always complaining about what she did not like.  Her favorite complaint – that her town home was like a cage – there was no view – there was nothing to look at except her neighbors’ front doors.

I visited Anne a few weeks ago and she showed me her beautiful home. The last stop on the tour was her bedroom. The curtains were drawn – I drew the curtains back and I was amazed to see the most beautiful moon light sky. I called Anne and showed her the night sky and she stood there in amazement – granted she had not lived very long in the town home and most nights she came home very late but Anne did what so many of us do – we become so transfixed by what we do not have, we overlook, what we already have.

Lets “resolve to evolve.” Give thanks for your triumphs, be they great or small. Don’t be like my friend Anne – looking at life through dissatisfied lens. What do you want more of in your life? Instead of losing weight, focus on being fit. Give more value to your customers/clients and more money will come. Love your self, give love and love will come to you.

Shift your thinking and make a list of the things you want more of, not the things you want to fix. Celebrate your life and resolve to evolve!!!

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